The eyes have it – nothing can be simpler than using proper eye contact to attract and sustain desire

 The most successful and long-standing relationships have chemistry and compatibility.  Having one or the other will not be enough to sustain you both in the long run.  Whether you are at the stage of wanting to find and attract a fabulous partner or either in the early or late stages of a relationship – using your eyes can be key in creating and sustaining desire.

As a man, holding eye contact with a woman in the right way can be very appealing.  Not only does it mean that you enjoy looking at her but also that you are confident in yourself – and this for many women is very appealing.  Locking eyes with a woman from across a crowded room can build excitement and tension.

So what are some keys to using your eyes to your advantage?
The Gaze
Guys – hold the gaze.  Whether you like it or not, it’s your job to hold the gaze just that bit longer than the woman.  She should be the first to break eye contact and either look away or look down.  If she is interested in you, this will increase the tension and desire.  Ladies, don’t outstare the guy if you want to keep him interested.
The smouldering look
Try and aim for that smouldering look of interest and desire – rather than a scary stare.  One way of achieving this is by ensuring your eyes are 75% open.  Yes that’s right – give it a go – feels different doesn’t it.  Check it out in the mirror – are your eyes smouldering?
The head down slightly
Check out the difference between the head and chin up and staring at someone versus the head and chin slightly lower and gazing longingly.  Beware though, don’t put your head and chin down too far as this will give the impression of low self confidence.  Go on…I know you want to try this as well…check yourself out in the mirror with your head down, eyes 75% open and a longing gaze…you’re almost there.
The blinking frequency and speed
Okay, so you have to blink…but keep it to a minimum…and if you do, make sure it’s nice and slow.  Too much blinking or too quick can indicate you’re nervous.  Okay, you might be and that’s okay, but just manage it by purposefully slowing down that eye movement.  Now synchronize all I have mentioned above with the blinking.
Now all you have to do is tell yourself how hot you look and you’re good to go!  Have fun!

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