Your partner is closer than you think

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What if I told you that a fabulous partner was closer than you ever thought?…Much closer…and what if you got really clear about the kind of person you want to be with?…And how do you feel about that person being a lot closer than you think and someone who matches very closely to what you have in your mind of who/what you are looking for? I want you to really think about the feelings that, that would bring up for you. The emotions that you would feel as a result of that person actually, currently being in your life right now…and I want you to accept right here and now that that person is in your life!

Now is a part of you saying…”Yes, well that’s all very well, but it’s just not possible? I haven’t seen any evidence of that so far?”…But if I was to say to you…”Alright, we don’t have the evidence right here at this time, but let’s just say that he or she is here. I want you to focus on the feeling right now that you have as a result of that person being in your life now!”

Now that little exercise should serve as a clear indication of where you’re at or where there are obstacles potentially to you not achieving what you want in terms of finding, attracting or being with a fabulous partner. If any part of you is struggling with that by saying “Yeah…it’s not possible.”; “I’ll never find someone with all these particular traits and aspects about them.”; “It hasn’t happened thus far so it’s not likely to happen in the future.” ; “I really don’t know if I like being with someone all the time” or if in some way you don’t have all the positive emotion associated with being that fabulous partner, then there’s probably more than likely a block. It’s a matter of working out what those blocks are for you and working with them, working around them, or overcoming them or clarifying what you really, really want, that’s going to help you to move forward and achieve what you’re wanting out of life and with a partner. You see, once you get absolutely clear that this is what you want, that you’re ready for a partner, that you’ve overcome any fears or negative emotions associated with finding and being with someone, you are leaps and bounds ahead of where you’re currently at today. Getting aligned with what you truly desire, getting clear on what you intend to do, believing despite contrary evidence to state otherwise that you will in fact find and be with someone fabulous, feeling the positive emotions associated with finding, attracting and being with someone and taking action are going to help you enormously.

Take some time today, to do that exercise and ponder and reflect on these things I have spoken about. Get some alignment and you will see that it’s not such a struggle anymore.

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Denise Corlett, founder of Dating Advice, is an expert in helping professional men and women find, attract and be successful in relationships. For more dating advice information on how to get partnered go to http://www.datingadvice.co.nz